The Big Weekend
I had been accustomed to booking for Parent’s Weekend the second it was announced, based on my older children who went to other colleges. I was pleasantly surprised to learn that price gauging and availability are not as big an issue at the hotels near UCF. As of today, Parent’s Weekend, is scheduled for September 28-30th, 2018. The earlier you book your hotel, the better your choices will be. However, if your choice hotel is booked you may want to keep trying as sometimes rooms open up. Many hotels will give a discount if you tell them you are coming for UCF Parent’s Weekend too. Most the local hotels are pretty flexible on cancellations (48 hours being the norm), but be sure to check all this out when booking. Our blog on hotels may help.
What to do
Parent’s Weekend is a wonderful weekend where you truly get the opportunity to see your student in their new role/home/independence. It feels great to have them march you around campus and introduce you to new friends with confidence. UCF has many planned activities that you can sign up to participate in. Check them out here: Parent’s Weekend. I do have to tell you though that I don’t know anyone that actually participates in these activities. Some go to the football game (the Knights are playing the Pittsburgh Panthers on Saturday) and many attend a pre-game or tailgate of some sort. The SAK Improv Comedy Show always sounds fun; maybe we will go this year. Or, perhaps, we will try the BBQ on Friday night.
If your student is in a sorority or fraternity there will undoubtedly be activities planned with their respective houses. Sororities usually have a tailgate planned before the game as well as an activity or two to enjoy with your daughter and other families. Fraternities also have a tailgate planned, but if it is food you are looking for, you probably should eat first. Frats are not known for their delicious fare. If your son is a pledge, it may not be worth the trip, however, because he will undoubtedly be working – setting up and cleaning up a good part of the weekend.
But Wait, There’s More
If your son or daughter is interested in the Hillel, there are usually family events on Friday night and Sunday morning of Parent’s Weekend. Check the Hillel site as it gets closer for details and sign-ups. Of course, our kids are also lucky enough to go to school in Orlando where there is never a shortage of things to do. (You may want to check out our blog on this too.) It is just nice to spend some time with our kids. Don’t be surprised, but many parents don’t go at all and hold out for a weekend in October when it is a bit cooler and further from when you just dropped them off. Although I have also heard from a few parents that their kids have told them not to come and then realized a day or two before that they wish they would, because they realize other families will be there.
Where to eat
Don’t shoot the messenger, but restaurants are crazy crowded all weekend long. I have heard that the further from campus one goes, the better luck they have had in this regard. Of course, that also means daring to get into your car and navigate through the traffic and find parking again later. Try to eat at off times. We have even picked up subs and brought them back to our hotel. (Check out our blog on restaurants as to where is good.)
Are you Ready for Some Football?
Football is undoubtedly a big part of the weekend. From the tailgates to the actual game, whether your student is part of Greek life or not, this is a fun part of the weekend. There are many options for buying football tickets, but some parents have told me that by buying a four-pack of season tickets, one game just about pays for itself. Since students’ tickets are free, it is surely worth supporting the marching Knights.
Some parents use Parent’s Weekend to make their first trip to Disney, Epcot or Universal. This leads me to the expenses associated with the weekend; some parents choose not to come up at all for Parent’s Weekend and simply come on a non-football weekend. We once flew our son home for the weekend instead. Transportation from Orlando isn’t terribly costly, particularly in comparison to what we spend on a typical Parent’s Weekend. Flying him home was cheaper than driving, paying for gas, tolls, meals and hotel. And you can’t forget a trip or two to the store to get all those things your student has been holding off on since they don’t really fit into his/her new budget.